Monday, January 26, 2015
Saturday, January 24, 2015
Why Reading to Your Children Matters
I could list a hundred articles, books and websites right here, right now, that would tell you why reading out loud to your child matters - and not just the under five crowd. I could show as many examples of why you reading to your child is quite different from a computer, tablet or phone reading to your child. And, more on why reading to your child from a book made of paper is better than reading out loud from a book on a tablet. But, I won't. You will find some of those things here, just not a hundred of them! You will also find my own thoughts on reading aloud from books that has some scientific basis and is supported by the articles mentioned, my experience being involved in a Waldorf school, study and implementation of home education and most importantly - mother's intuition.
Below is an infographic from Read Aloud which makes it quite clear to those learn visually (most of us) why reading to your young child is important. (Let me be clear, I am NOT saying your older children should not be reading on a tablet.)
Below is an infographic from Read Aloud which makes it quite clear to those learn visually (most of us) why reading to your young child is important. (Let me be clear, I am NOT saying your older children should not be reading on a tablet.)
There is this article in the New York Times that tells us, "a handful of new studies suggest that reading to a child from an
electronic device undercuts the dynamic that drives language
development.
'There’s
a lot of interaction when you’re reading a BOOK with your child,' Dr.
High said. 'You’re turning pages, pointing at pictures, talking about
the story. Those things are lost somewhat when you’re using an e-book.”
Scientific American brought even greater depth to this topic and speaks of mapping of the mind, sensory development and more. They state, "evidence from laboratory experiments, polls and consumer reports indicates that modern screens and e-readers fail to adequately recreate certain tactile experiences of reading on paper that many people miss and, more importantly, prevent people from navigating long texts in an intuitive and satisfying way." Again, this blog post is really about parents reading to their children, but there is an element, specifically with the young child, of the appropriateness of a reader vs. a book. Sitting down with a child and tablet in your lap is a very different experience for all then sitting down with a child and a soft book, board book or chapter book.
To be fair, I've read several articles on how e-readers increase literacy among older children. I can see the validity in this for many reasons. Children who are turned off by books but who are like moths to a flame with a screen may find that they enjoy reading on or at least being read to by a tablet. Families who do not make time to go to the library regularly but have tablets or computers in the home may allow downloads for their children. And, knowing that not all private schools have a library and that public schools often build in very little time for the school library, that decreases access to quality books even further making books available on screens preferable simply due to access in some cases. My own children have access to screens (with limitations). Both have age appropriate games but there are few books read on the tablet. Most books (about 15 per week) come from the local public library or they reread cherished favorites from our home children's library.
With all of these things said, in my opinion, the cost of using tablets for young children when books are interactive or using them for older children to teach literacy is much higher. For many years my family was involved in Waldorf education. We chose that path for many reasons but one of them was the classical approach to education and child development that is the hallmark of that pedagogy. Another hallmark is the focus on IMAGINATION and that is something that matters to us. Again, this is something I have known but it was not until this week that I was smacked in the face by how important this is as well as my own PARENTING FAIL.
We were sitting at the kitchen table having lunch and discussing the possibilities of visiting the Wizarding World of Harry Potter this summer. My 8-year old said, "I wonder if we'll see Voldemort." A discussion followed about Voldemort's appearance. My mind wandered at some point and I heard my 13-year old say, "That's not what he really looks like." What? "That's not what he looks like in the book." 8-year old responded, "Well, I haven't gotten to that part in the book." OMG. We let the Moon see the first Harry Potter movie without reading the book. No big deal. Right? Wrong! It couldn't be more of a big deal. We have forever altered how she sees the characters in the books by allowing her to be influenced by the characters in the movie. Is this earth-shattering? No, but it served as a reminder to me the power of imagination and the importance of allowing our minds to INTERNALLY create what we see as opposed to reliance on OTHERS EXTERNAL IDEAS of what we should see.
Scientific American brought even greater depth to this topic and speaks of mapping of the mind, sensory development and more. They state, "evidence from laboratory experiments, polls and consumer reports indicates that modern screens and e-readers fail to adequately recreate certain tactile experiences of reading on paper that many people miss and, more importantly, prevent people from navigating long texts in an intuitive and satisfying way." Again, this blog post is really about parents reading to their children, but there is an element, specifically with the young child, of the appropriateness of a reader vs. a book. Sitting down with a child and tablet in your lap is a very different experience for all then sitting down with a child and a soft book, board book or chapter book.
The Atlantic adds, " A recent poll showed that
only 13% of parents read to their kids every night. Interactive stories
will never be a substitute for reading a book with a young child.
Physical books offer a parent and a child a unique opportunity to bond.
During a bedtime story, the only stimuli are the adult’s voice and
intonation and the book’s pictures. The best stories require
interpretation and stimulate discussion between parent and child." I can tell you truthfully that I still read to my 13- year old. You may not remember but he is the one that finished the library reading program in a week a couple of summers ago. To say he is an avid reader is putting it mildly. Every day he sits down with my 8-year old and I over afternoon tea and a book. For several weeks it was Beatrix Potter stories. Now it is Little House in the Big Woods (my 2nd grader's language arts program).
There will be a time in our lives when I will
wish I had someone to read to and I cherish
these afternoons more than anything!
To be fair, I've read several articles on how e-readers increase literacy among older children. I can see the validity in this for many reasons. Children who are turned off by books but who are like moths to a flame with a screen may find that they enjoy reading on or at least being read to by a tablet. Families who do not make time to go to the library regularly but have tablets or computers in the home may allow downloads for their children. And, knowing that not all private schools have a library and that public schools often build in very little time for the school library, that decreases access to quality books even further making books available on screens preferable simply due to access in some cases. My own children have access to screens (with limitations). Both have age appropriate games but there are few books read on the tablet. Most books (about 15 per week) come from the local public library or they reread cherished favorites from our home children's library.
With all of these things said, in my opinion, the cost of using tablets for young children when books are interactive or using them for older children to teach literacy is much higher. For many years my family was involved in Waldorf education. We chose that path for many reasons but one of them was the classical approach to education and child development that is the hallmark of that pedagogy. Another hallmark is the focus on IMAGINATION and that is something that matters to us. Again, this is something I have known but it was not until this week that I was smacked in the face by how important this is as well as my own PARENTING FAIL.
We were sitting at the kitchen table having lunch and discussing the possibilities of visiting the Wizarding World of Harry Potter this summer. My 8-year old said, "I wonder if we'll see Voldemort." A discussion followed about Voldemort's appearance. My mind wandered at some point and I heard my 13-year old say, "That's not what he really looks like." What? "That's not what he looks like in the book." 8-year old responded, "Well, I haven't gotten to that part in the book." OMG. We let the Moon see the first Harry Potter movie without reading the book. No big deal. Right? Wrong! It couldn't be more of a big deal. We have forever altered how she sees the characters in the books by allowing her to be influenced by the characters in the movie. Is this earth-shattering? No, but it served as a reminder to me the power of imagination and the importance of allowing our minds to INTERNALLY create what we see as opposed to reliance on OTHERS EXTERNAL IDEAS of what we should see.
Think about this, "interactivity often creates more of a game experience than a reading
experience. Instead of being the focus, the story becomes merely a
background." (the Atlantic) The images and the interactivity should be to support the imagining of the story but frequently it has the opposite effect.
Many authors and publishers are resistant to using technology - or at least interactive aps - in regards to children's books. Liz Thompson from BookBrunch tell us, "There's a lot of stuff at the moment that we're doing because we can. It's a question of whether you can really add value to the story. If you can, then it's fun, and there is some really creative stuff going on, but certainly ebooks seem to me not so cosy, that there's a feeling of curling up with a book that you can't replicate, however good the technology." (The Guardian)
The Atlantic really sums it all up for me with: "Fiction can show you a different world. It can take you somewhere you’ve never been. Once you’ve visited other worlds, like those who ate fairy fruit, you can never be entirely content with the world that you grew up in. Discontent is a good thing: discontented people can modify and improve their worlds, leave them better, leave them different.” We don’t want to lose that."
Many authors and publishers are resistant to using technology - or at least interactive aps - in regards to children's books. Liz Thompson from BookBrunch tell us, "There's a lot of stuff at the moment that we're doing because we can. It's a question of whether you can really add value to the story. If you can, then it's fun, and there is some really creative stuff going on, but certainly ebooks seem to me not so cosy, that there's a feeling of curling up with a book that you can't replicate, however good the technology." (The Guardian)
The Atlantic really sums it all up for me with: "Fiction can show you a different world. It can take you somewhere you’ve never been. Once you’ve visited other worlds, like those who ate fairy fruit, you can never be entirely content with the world that you grew up in. Discontent is a good thing: discontented people can modify and improve their worlds, leave them better, leave them different.” We don’t want to lose that."
Thursday, January 8, 2015
Dream Big
So, here's the deal. I've been following this amazing Goddess on Earth for a few years and would like to recommend that you follow her as well. I won't go into lots of details because the truth is....I've never met her. She's not my guru, not my friend, but has inspired me quite a bit and at 4:00PM today she is doing her yearly FB pajama party planning session. Her name is Leonie Dawson and she comes from the land down under.
I, unfortunately, will not be in my pajamas when this begins. I'll most likely be at an early dinner with the kiddos at an undisclosed restaurant in Nashville. Damn. And, I'll most likely be breaking all of our family rules about media and screens at the dinner table which means I may have to let the kids have screens as well. Not sure about that yet.
My favorite product from Leonie, other than her weekly emails, is her workbook, which I am using this year. For many years I have followed Sarah ban Breathnach and though I love her work, I never loved her workbook that accompanied the Simple Abundance book that she is most well known for. For me, this is sort of like taking some of what is in SA and putting it into really bright dynamic content that helps you break into that next level.
According to many sources, Americans are visual learners and I must say that applies to me as well. That's probably why I like this book so much. It. Is. Very. Visual.
So, take a look at Leonie today. Hop on the FB pajama party page and get to making this your best year yet!
I, unfortunately, will not be in my pajamas when this begins. I'll most likely be at an early dinner with the kiddos at an undisclosed restaurant in Nashville. Damn. And, I'll most likely be breaking all of our family rules about media and screens at the dinner table which means I may have to let the kids have screens as well. Not sure about that yet.
My favorite product from Leonie, other than her weekly emails, is her workbook, which I am using this year. For many years I have followed Sarah ban Breathnach and though I love her work, I never loved her workbook that accompanied the Simple Abundance book that she is most well known for. For me, this is sort of like taking some of what is in SA and putting it into really bright dynamic content that helps you break into that next level.
According to many sources, Americans are visual learners and I must say that applies to me as well. That's probably why I like this book so much. It. Is. Very. Visual.
So, take a look at Leonie today. Hop on the FB pajama party page and get to making this your best year yet!
Saturday, December 20, 2014
24 Days of Christmas - Day 20
It's the little things in life that bring us all such meaning and joy. I know. There are big things as well, the birth if a child, the purchase of a new home, marriages......but I believe it is the small things that sustain us. Today, the small things in my life include a quiet moment in the chapel watching the children rehearse their Christmas pageant; the gift from a friend of playdates with my children while I put the final touches on Christmas; and the knowledge that yesterday I prepared enough food to feed my family through Monday. It is easy to get caught up in the stresses of the holiday but much more pleasant to take a quiet moment and appreciate the small things in your life. What sustains you today? I'd love to hear from you.
Thursday, December 18, 2014
24 Days of Christmas - Day 18...I Think
Well, we are quickly approaching Christmas and things are beginning to breakdown at the Croy homestead, home of the harmonious family. Frustrated by the lack of 5 minutes to wrap gifts, I put the kids in front of Elf while I locked myself away to get said gifts ready for display. In other words, we began Christmas break two days early.
The kitchen now looks like Santas elves have been creating havoc (who am I kidding...they would never leave that mess).
Once Elf was over I realized the beans I had been cooking all morning were not ready for lunch and I didn't have enough wits about me to give the kids oatmeal for lunch, so we ran out to grab a gf lunch (not easy in our neighborhood). On to violin, then a mad dash home to get the Sun ready for his violin concert. These may not seem like much but there were other stressors added in which revolve around scheduling and a father with a doctor's appointment each day this week and well, the conversation with my husband sums it up.
"When you get to the church for the concert, come down to Boca Loca where you will find me with a sangria." He responded, "So, you are that kind of mom." "I am today."
I will leave you with a picture if the moon sipping a Shirley Temple. Cheers to you!
Wednesday, December 17, 2014
24 Days of Christmas - Day 16
How in the world did it go from day 5 to day 16? Has the last week and a half really flown by that quickly? I think so. We've been quite busy on the old Croy homestead. Trimming trees, making desserts, Christmas crafting....there have been Christmas concerts and activities and on Sunday we are North Pole bound. Trying to not panic or be in any shape, form or fashion F-R-A-N-T-I-C, we are wrapping up our first semester of homeschool and putting the final touches on the Christmas season.
Here are few things we have been doing here at home. Note the snowflake wreath thanks to Better Homes and Gardens and the new Christmas card holder made from an old window frame. I hope this week finds you calm as you navigate these last days leading up to the Winter Solstice and the birth of Christ. Relish in the increasing darkness and celebrate the light this holiday season!
Have a very merry day!
Here are few things we have been doing here at home. Note the snowflake wreath thanks to Better Homes and Gardens and the new Christmas card holder made from an old window frame. I hope this week finds you calm as you navigate these last days leading up to the Winter Solstice and the birth of Christ. Relish in the increasing darkness and celebrate the light this holiday season!
Have a very merry day!
Saturday, December 6, 2014
Thursday, December 4, 2014
24 Days of Christmas - Day 4
The Advent season has begun. We have never celebrated Advent before,
not at least the anticipation of the birth of Christ. I am not sure
why we are celebrating it this year. Perhaps it is the Episcopal church
we are attending and I want to give the children the experience of this
celebration. Perhaps it is my continued offering of all religious
paths to my children. Maybe it's the connection we also feel for the
approach of the darkest night of the year - the Winter Solstice.
Regardless, we are anticipating the arrival of our precious pink and
purple candles.
To prepare for the new celebration in our home (and to prepare for the arrival of our Christmas tree on Saturday), I spent yesterday cleaning the silver (the base for said Advent wreath), cleaning out closets and reading articles to the children about the meaning of the Advent and how the greenery ties into the Earth based religions we also honor in our home.
One of the best articles I found that resonated with me the most was one on how the advent season honors Mary as she prepared for the birth of her son. It reminded me of an Advent season, 13 years ago, when I waited for the birth of my own son, born 2 days after Christmas.
Regardless of what or how you are celebrating and enjoying this dark time of the year, go in peace and be blessed.
To prepare for the new celebration in our home (and to prepare for the arrival of our Christmas tree on Saturday), I spent yesterday cleaning the silver (the base for said Advent wreath), cleaning out closets and reading articles to the children about the meaning of the Advent and how the greenery ties into the Earth based religions we also honor in our home.
One of the best articles I found that resonated with me the most was one on how the advent season honors Mary as she prepared for the birth of her son. It reminded me of an Advent season, 13 years ago, when I waited for the birth of my own son, born 2 days after Christmas.
Regardless of what or how you are celebrating and enjoying this dark time of the year, go in peace and be blessed.
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